everywhere, for things happened on me, i was either get inspired or get knocked down. the most important thing might not always be the end product because every end mark a new beginning, it's that have i really get the lesson from the circumstance, and how i respond to what i experience that matter.
recently, I have spare more time on my own, sort of tidy up my personal values for life, through reading and part-time work, talking to friends and colleagues, bit by bit, day by day. there still be questions weighing their values and mine.
looking through the photos with friends and family, i found i have no much regrets in the past. however, some essence values missing in the past can make me even better than yesterday. Life is too short to learn everything by experience. And some painful experiences can be avoided. There are some of the things that i might not mastered in, however it's the time to welcome new values, restructure old values to be part of my character.
*be proactive, brave, more concerned about others - life is short, be an enormous source of inspiration to many people around. because you are rich or poor in life by smiles around you, friends you make, ideas you have, dreams you chase, and the love you spread. sometimes, slapping a shoulder shows a sign of camaraderie.
*do not blame circumstances - we definitely hope everyone can be honest, but when they don't wish you to
see something, understand why someone is doing so, don't let them know that you know how they feel, do something on the opposite that can make them feel happy, or just dont do anything.
it's the responsibility, the ability to choose your response wisely.
*dont hate someone - if you have consume so many time to figure about how to hate them, then they should feel sorry for you, for you it's lifeless, nothing but them.
*respect should be earned, not given freely - knowing and respect yourself and other. ignore and show people the right way for both convenient cooperation. and one of the simplest ways to show respect is to simply listen. respect others enough to let them get the whole story out before we rush in to give an answer, or jump in to fix things.
*learn to persuade and influencing people - success depend on saying the right thing at the right time. choose your words carefully. we have to use words to communicate. we may as well choose the best. use skilful words to tip the balance, provided you have a good reason.
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